

Maggie & Max
Infertility Diagnosis
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- Male factor
Treatment(s)
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- Frozen embryo transfer (FET)
- In vitro Fertilization (IVF)
Location(s)
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- Syracuse
Maggie & Max's Story:
Infertility doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t care how young you are, how healthy you seem, or how ready your heart is to grow your family. We learned that the hard way.
After a year of trying to conceive, month after month of negative pregnancy tests, tears, and quiet heartbreak, we decided it was time to seek help. I went through all the initial scans and tests, and everything came back “normal.” Nothing obvious explained why we weren’t getting pregnant. Then my husband underwent testing, and that’s when our world changed.
At just 23 years old, healthy and strong, my husband was diagnosed with severe male factor infertility. His bloodwork looked great, but the sperm analysis told a different story. We were told our chances of conceiving naturally were “slim to none.” It was a crushing blow—but also a turning point. We knew we had to fight for the family we dreamed of.
In April 2024, we initiated our first round of in vitro fertilization (IVF). I underwent my egg retrieval on May 10, 2024, through a mini IVF cycle. That day, 36 eggs were retrieved—36 tiny chances for hope. From those, 11 beautiful embryos developed. On June 4, 2024, we transferred a perfect 4AA graded embryo during a frozen embryo transfer.
Three days later—just three days after our 5-day embryo transfer—I saw those two pink lines for the first time. Our baby had stuck. Our hearts were overwhelmed with cautious joy. But, as anyone who’s walked this road knows, a positive test doesn’t guarantee anything.
We held our breath through every blood test and every ultrasound. Then came the heartbeat—the most beautiful sound we’d ever heard. It was finally real.
We waited until that precious heartbeat was confirmed before sharing our news with our family. Their joy mirrored our own, and our long-held secret turned into celebration.
Pregnancy wasn’t easy for me. There were challenges, pain, and moments of fear. But none of that could outweigh what waited on the other side.
On February 1, 2025, we met our miracle—our baby girl, Millie. Every needle, every tear, every prayer was worth it a hundred times over the moment we held her in our arms.
She is the answer to all of our whys. She is living proof that miracles do exist. She is love in its purest, most hard-earned form.
(Photos by Jean James Photo)
The Moment:
When I finally held my daughter for the first time, I was in complete and utter shock.
Not the kind of shock that comes from surprise, but the kind that comes when a dream you’ve protected so fiercely, prayed for so desperately, and feared might never come true finally becomes real.
Infertility has a way of wrapping every step of the journey in doubt. Even after a positive test, even after hearing the heartbeat, even after feeling her kick, there was still a voice inside me whispering, “What if it all falls apart?” You carry that weight. That fear. That constant question of "Will I really get to meet my baby?"
So when she was finally in my arms—warm, breathing, real—I was overwhelmed by disbelief. That this baby, this perfect little girl, was actually mine. That God had chosen me to be her mom. That all the pain, the treatments, the waiting, and the prayers led to this moment. That I was worthy of something so good.
I remember feeling that same sense of awe and unworthiness nine months earlier when I saw those two pink lines. And holding her only magnified it.
She was more than a baby. She was proof that hope can outlive heartbreak. That faith can carry you through fear. That miracles don’t always come easy—but they do come.
Hope, Inspiration and Advice:
This journey rarely goes how we planned. The comparisons to others' paths will only weigh you down. Your story is unfolding at its own pace, and it’s still worthy—even if it looks different.