It goes without saying that going through infertility can be a stressful time in one’s life. The emotions that arise are very real and can be difficult to navigate. At CNY, we understand that caring for your emotional well-being is as important as treating your infertility, and we understand that each couple’s experience and needs are different. CNY Fertility provides the support you need to help you and your partner through all stages of your fertility journey. Whether you’re more comfortable in a group setting, one-on-one or as an observer, CNY Fertility has the support you need to reduce the stress associated with infertility from a medical, emotional, and financial perspective. Please view our calendar for support events here.
The Circle of Hope:
The Circle of Hope Support Group meets on the second Tuesday of each month at 5:30 pm at our Syracuse and Albany locations. The group is moderated by one of our team members and is open to all clients. During the group session, clients are invited to share their personal experiences, seek support, and gain helpful tools for coping with the emotional ups and downs of infertility. Guest speakers will also occasionally join the group to share knowledge and their own personal journey.
Workshops, Yoga, and More:
In addition to our Circle of Hope Support Group and regular Facebook Live sessions, each CNY Healing Arts location offers a variety of events and workshops each month. Workshop topics range from nutrition to the grief process. We also provide weekly Yoga for Fertility (free!) and meditation opportunities. For workshop meeting times and locations, please visit our CNY Fertility Calendar https://www.cnyfertility.com/calendar/
Public Facebook and Instagram Communities:
Our main Facebook and Instagram page offers clients, those just beginning to look into fertility care, as well as those who have already sought treatment a place to connect with others, share information, and learn. These pages are also a great place to learn about recent and upcoming events CNY like our annual Zoo Party and IVF Giveaways.
Weekly Circle of Hope Facebook Live:
We recognize that some of our clients are unable to make it to in-office support meetings. Luckily, we are able to regularly offer Facebook Live support sessions. This allows clients to listen in and ask questions from the comfort of their own homes. These sessions occur on our Secret Facebook Support Group, The Official CNY Fertility Support Group. To join the Facebook Support Group, please email Lisa, and she is happy to help you: Lstack@cnyfertility.com
Q-talks The World talks infertility – join like-minded people in real voice conversations:
Q-talks is a simple voice conversation app who connects you randomized in voice conversation groups of a maximum of four people based on the selected conversation topic of interest. Q-talks and CNY Fertility invite you to talk, connect, and discuss your own experiences with like-minded people who are struggling with infertility. You can participate in a conversation completely anonymous and the conversation is not logged on any server. The goal is to connect everyone who struggles with infertility through voice and human conversations – a place to talk about concerns, challenges, and emotions. We know that Trying To Conceive is a long, painful, and lonely journey. Having someone to talk with who understands and has faced the same issues is not only helpful – it´s necessary.
For more information visit us on www.q-talks.com
Private Facebook Support Groups:
We recognize the need for community and support. We’ve created four Facebook support groups set to the “secret” setting. This means that you are free to share, support, and feel heard as you need to. These groups will not appear in searches, and will not appear anywhere on your profile or newsfeed for friends, family, and coworkers to see. The groups that we currently have are:
- Official CNY Fertility Support Group: All fertility topics welcome!
- Official CNYFC Pregnancy & Beyond: All pregnancy, baby, and kid discussions.
- Official Life after TTC: Navigating the world after trying to conceive if you have not been successful, or have had to stop trying for any reason. Please be mindful that this group is not for those who are actively cycling or any pregnancy discussion.
- Official Men’s Group CNYFC: A support space for our male clients.
- Official CNY Fertility Donor Embryo Program and Family Finder: Open for clients that are interested in donating embryos or being the recipient of donor embryos with the hope that families with remaining embryos after successfully completing their families can for the friendship often necessary to make such a personal and meaningful gift.
Fertile Friend Friday:
Each Friday, we make a social media post on our Instagram and Facebook page calling anyone looking for a “Fertility Friend,” to comment on the post. Commenting notifies our community that you are open to being messaged both privately and publicly from someone else in our community currently seeking treatment or has already completed their Fertile Journey and would like to offer their support, knowledge, and guidance to a new member of the community.
Private One-on-One support with Lisa:
If you are looking for a more private one-on-one support situation, Lisa Stack is a CNY Fertility Center Staff member who has been through the fertility journey experience herself. She offers her services as a lay support person and can be contacted by email at firstname.lastname@example.org or by phone at 315-744-8073.
Lisa put together a helpful Holiday Support Guide to give you the opportunity to make time to reflect during times of grief and work through challenging situations that can become ever present during the holiday season, especially for those on the fertility journey.
If you have recently suffered a miscarriage or you are finding that your fertility journey is becoming emotionally overwhelming, please visit Lisa’s guide to Understanding the Grief Process. Additionally, if you would like a few ideas for honoring and remembering your loss, we have gathered a few thoughts for you here, at Honoring A Miscarriage.
Supporting a loved one experiencing infertility can be very challenging. Sometimes, the right words don’t always come easily, so Lisa has written a helpful guide on Supporting a Loved One on Their Fertility Journey.
Online Counseling with Amira Posner:
For more information,
and find her on Twitter and Instagram.
Fertile Hope Yoga:
Fertile Hope Yoga is the world’s first online fertility yoga studio allowing women to practice from the comfort of their living room floor and is run by our very own Erin McCollough. Erin has been teaching Fertility Yoga for 10 years at CNY Fertility Rochester. The hope of this collaboration is to offer all CNY Fertility clients the benefits of yoga no matter where you live! Learn More Here
Fruitful is a fertility mentorship program that is dedicated to connecting people experiencing infertility with the mentors, resources, and support they need. Fruitful exists to encourage, inspire and support those struggling with the emotional fallout of infertility and is a wonderful service.
Counseling, whether it be in a group format or on a one-to-one basis, may help you with the issues that surround infertility. If you would like to explore this avenue our Support Coordinator, Lisa Stack, can facilitate a Counselor referral for you. Email her at Lstack@cnyfertility.com to get more information. You can also feel free to peruse the list of Counselors we are currently referring to and contact them on your own. View list here.
We have many more support services available, to view them all visit our CNY Healing Arts website.
APRIL ALL YEAR:
A fertility client of ours started sharing her fertility journey with us in May, 2009. She has opened her heart and soul to share her struggles, challenges and support during this time in her life. . April also took the time to share some of her valued resources that she discovered along the way: informational books, inspirational books, websites and more. Click here to read April’s Resource Page.
ENDICOTT NY SUPPORT GROUP:
Coping With Infertility? You Are Not Alone … Please join this Peer Support Group, they have been offering help and support for over twenty years in the Endicott, NY area. Where: First United Methodist Church of Endicott (corner of Mc Kinley and Monroe Streets) When: Every third Thursday of the month. Time: 7:00 PM
MULTIPLE MOMS MINGLE MESSAGE BOARD:
This group is for mothers and expectant mothers of multiples. Please join us! To mingle with other Moms of multiples online, Click here. Or to visit the website and learn more Click here.
THE AMERICAN SOCIETY FOR REPRODUCTIVE MEDICINE:
The American Society for Reproductive Medicine is an organization devoted to advancing knowledge and expertise in reproductive medicine and biology. Established in 1944, the Society has since achieved national and international recognition as the foremost organization promoting the study of reproduction and reproductive disorders. The ASRM is a voluntary non-profit organization. Members must demonstrate the high ethical principles of the medical profession, evince an interest in reproductive medicine and biology, and adhere to the objectives of the Society. The national administrative office is located in Birmingham, Alabama, with a government/public relations office in Washington, DC. Services are offered to patients, health professionals and media professionals (information, press releases, policy statements, etc.). Literature is available from the ASRM.
RESOLVE is a national non-profit organization that, for more than 20 years, has assisted people in resolving their infertility by providing information, support, and advocacy. Founded in 1974 by Barbara Eck Menning, a nurse, RESOLVE has grown from a small kitchen operation to a national organization. RESOLVE has a database of more than 40,000 individuals and providers, more than 50 chapters nationwide, and a national paid staff of 17 that provides services and programs for individuals experiencing infertility. RESOLVE is a non-profit organization run by a volunteer board. The board includes individuals who have experienced medical concerns regarding infertility, and who have adopted children. It also includes members of the professional community — nurses, lawyers, CPA’s, and business people. All are committed to providing services of the highest quality for members and the general public. RESOLVE advocates on the national and local level for comprehensive insurance coverage for infertility treatment and other family-building issues of concern. In principle and in practice, RESOLVE values and seeks a diverse membership. There shall be no barrier to full participation in this organization.
CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL:
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), located in Atlanta, Georgia, USA, is an agency of the Department of Health and Human Services. Their mission is to promote health and quality of life by preventing and controlling disease, injury, and disability.
This website was created by a woman while going through IVF herself. It has bulletin boards that are enabled, a chat room, and links and resources to other informational sites that are available to those suffering from infertility.
THE ENDOMETRIOSIS CENTER AT BINGHAMTON:
The Endometriosis Center at Binghamton Gynecology is a satellite IVF office of the CNY Fertility Center. Serving the Southern Tier and beyond, Dr. James Kondrup and his staff have become a regional leader in gynecologic care and fertility treatments.