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April’s journey to fertility: Week ten
Posted by: April on Jul 28, 2009 in News

Fertility SymbolApril is a CNY Fertility Center patient and has been on her journey to fertility for approximately two years. April will share candid stories and a unique perspective on the fertility challenges many women and couples face.

Week 10: Well-timed reminders

For each article, I make it a point to wait for whatever may serve as my weekly writing inspiration to reveal itself. By now, you know that I have control issues so waiting to be inspired can make me a bit nervous. In fact, I would actually prefer to write several articles at once and send them into our web designer in batches because I like to plan and work ahead of schedule. However, I am exceptionally grateful I waited for this week’s inspirations to surface.

I had two encouraging experiences this week. First, I broke a treasured wine glass on Friday afternoon. It was one of a pair we received as a favor at our close friends’ wedding, and I was so upset to have broken the sentimental glass, especially since I love wedding favors that we can use again because they prompt us to remember the fun event and (hopefully) happy couple. On Saturday night we attended a wedding, and do you know what the favors were? Wine glasses – beautiful, painted wine glasses! At our last meeting with Dr. Rob, he said that the universe will give you what you ask for and oftentimes something even better. The wine glasses were definitely a well-timed reminder of the universe/God’s ability to honor our wishes. To further prove Dr. Rob’s point, we ended up leaving with four wine glasses instead of two. We had a mini set by the time we left because two people at the table saw how excited I was and then gave theirs to me. What a fun little blessing! Although I may not be pregnant this month, I am certainly going to be one day – I just know it.

Secondly, I was skimming through our local publication of The Breast Cancer Coalition. Honestly, this magazine was not even addressed to me, but to the previous resident. I read through it anyway because my friend’s mother had breast cancer, and I thought I might learn about current research and/or our local awareness efforts. Interestingly enough, I found a poem titled “You Are Me” by Thich Nhat Hanh. I remember thinking that I had heard of him before and knew that he was somehow linked to Buddhism and Zen teachings. I decided that God was giving me this poem because I needed to read one poignant line: “You cultivate the flower in yourself so that I will be beautiful.”

Ladies, this is what we are doing! We are cultivating ourselves so that our babies will be beautiful. Think of all of the hard work we have already committed to in order to make this journey fruitful. Whether you have made use of Western and/or Eastern approaches, IUIs or IVFs, eliminated foods from your diet or added herbal remedies, you are taking positive steps toward cultivating your body so that it becomes a fertile and nourishing ground for pregnancy.

I often think that since we have been taking a break from the Western fertility methods we are not undergoing any fertility treatment, but that is not the case at all. I could easily generate a list of several actions we are taking to increase fertility and need to consistently recognize our efforts. Therefore, I would encourage you to take a few moments this week to actually write down what you are doing that is helping to nurture and develop your fertility. You may be surprised at just how much cultivating you are already doing!

Fruitful Blessings,
April all Year

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Below are links to April’s past articles in case you missed any of them:

Week nine: Summertime

Week eight: Resiliency

Week seven: Tiny miracles

Week six: Bahama Mama

Week five: The right path for us

Week four: Our fertility treatment “break”

Week three: Deliberate choices

Week two: This moment

Week one: My story

2 responses to “April’s journey to fertility: Week ten”

  1. Katie says:

    April,
    You are truly amazing and you have inspired me! Recently I started going for acupuncture to CNY and feel like my life is changing. I have been dealing with infertility for over 3 years now and I am just starting to let go of my control. Each day, I am thankful for all of my little miracles. I am leaving it up to the God and the universe!
    Like you, I know I will be a mom. One day, I will be a mom. It may take longer than I would like and I might not get there the traditional way, but I will be a mom. You will be a mom!
    Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I feel like everything you have written is where I want to be and how I want to feel. I am getting there and with your help, I know I am healing.

  2. april says:

    Katie,
    Thanks so much for your heartfelt feedback. I know this is a sensitive topic and appreciate your willingness to share. It is sometimes difficult for me to gauge if I what I am sharing is helpful for others so I thank you for confirming that and for offering a bit of your own story. I have to admit, it can be difficult to let go, give it up to God and the universe, and to be positive. The start of my last cycle was definitely the most difficult for me in a long time, but I do know we will be mothers one day – one way or another!!!

    Again – thanks for your genuine response and please let me know if there are any topics I can share more about!
    April all Year

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